Thoughts and Musings by Duke Lancaster
I have been a Pastor and church leader for many years now and use this blog to capture my thoughts as I find things of interest either from others or from my own studies.Thank you for visiting. I hope you find something among my ramblings that is helpful... or at least relevant enough to make you think
Saturday, October 8, 2016
Thursday, May 19, 2016
A Pastor's Job
In a sermon around A.D. 400, North African bishop Augustine described a pastor's job: "Disturbers are to be rebuked, the low spirited to be encouraged, the infirm to be supported, objectors confuted, the treacherous guarded against, the unskilled taught, the lazy aroused, the contentious restrained, the haughty repressed, litigants pacified, the poor relieved, the oppressed liberated, the good approved, the evil borne with, and all are to be loved."
Thursday, January 7, 2016
How to Tell Who You Can Truly Trust in Leadership
by Carey Nieuwhof So who can you trust…I mean truly trust in leadership? You’ve trusted people you thought you could trust, only to be disappointed or get burned (sometimes badly). You’ve decided not to trust someone, only to realize you were wrong and he or she was completely trustworthy, and you missed a great opportunity to grow your team. Trusting people in leadership can be a disheartening and confusing proposition in leadership. But the stakes are high. Put an untrustworthy person in a position of influence, and they can do a lot of damage fast. Misjudge trust, and you will never have the team you need to lead you into a better future. So…is it possible to tell in advance who you can trust? Can you ever build a team that you can stop worrying about, and just, well, trust? I believe you can. Here’s how. Click To Tweet
A Better Definition of Trust in Leadership
First, let’s define trust.I realize it may seem trite to define trust, but I think trust functions differently in leadership than in life. Trust isn’t about whether you like someone, have a good feeling about them, or think they have potential. At its heart, trust is confidence. It’s belief in someone’s reliability. Trust in marriage is believing that even when you are apart you are faithful to one another. Financial trust is believing that someone will use your money to your benefit, not theirs. Trusting someone with your favourite keepsake is believing they will care for it as well as you would. Click To Tweet Just because you would personally trust someone with your wallet doesn’t mean you should trust them in leadership. And that’s where many of us go wrong. Many of us think if a person is trustworthy in life they’ll be trustworthy in leadership. Not necessarily. Having great character is a prerequisite to leadership; it’s a devastating mistake to invite people into leadership who lie, cheat, steal and do other untrustworthy things. That’s a given. But you need a different standard, a more nuanced understanding of trust if your team and organization are going to become all they can be. Click To Tweet
3 Ways to Tell Who You Can Truly Trust In Leadership
So what exactly do you
assess trustworthiness in leadership, then?Well, if you’re going to have a team that functions amazingly well that you can fully trust (whether that’s a staff team or a volunteer team), you need to address these three issues. It’s taken me two decades in leadership to figure out a pattern of trust that’s accurate most of the time. But once you learn the pattern, it’s easy to utilize. Is it absolutely foolproof? No, but it’s proven to be a very reliable guide. So with that said, here are 3 ways to tell who you can truly trust in leadership. I’ve framed it in the form of 3 questions.
1. Are they aligned?
This is the first question
because it’s the question most leaders overlook. Ignore it, and it will
ultimately sink your ship.Alignment is critical in leadership. I’m going to assume your organization or church has a specific mission, vision and strategy. Almost every organization worth leading does. Alignment ensures that your team is all pulling in the same direction. A person may have outstanding character and a great heart, but if they are not aligned with your mission, vision and strategy, they not be an asset to your team. In fact, they’ll create conflict. When you try to steer the ship right, they will try to steer it left. When you want to move forward, they will want to move backward. And eventually, your ship might sink. Alignment is NOT about putting ‘yes’ people in places of leadership. Quite the opposite, an aligned team will have vigorous debate about how to accomplish the mission, but you won’t have to go through the frustrating, daily debate of which mission to accomplish. If you want more on alignment, I wrote about 5 things North Point Church has taught me about alignment here. Click To Tweet
2. What are their friends like?
Don’t know who said it, but
they were right: Show
me your friends and I’ll show you your life. One of the best things you can do when thinking about inviting a leader onto your team is to see who they hang out with; like attracts like. A person’s friendship circle will tell you a lot about the kind of person they are…positively and negatively. If you admire a potential leader’s friends, chances are you will love working with that potential leader. If you don’t, chances are you won’t. If you see a circle of high capacity people who are very trustworthy around a potential leader, chances are that leader is trustworthy. If you see a circle of backbiting, gossip, failed relationships or other struggles, chances are that’s what you’re recruiting. The character of a potential leader’s friends will tell you a lot about their character. You don’t need to judge here…you just need to discern. The health of your organization and team matters too much for you to ignore this. Click To Tweet
3. What’s their trajectory?
I love the idea of
trajectory in leadership.Trajectory is simply the path followed by an object in motion. You can predict an object’s future course by looking at its past. The same is true of people. Every potential leaders you’re considering has a track record…a past that will indicate how they might perform in the future. This is true even of kids and teens (what kind of student/friend are they?). Often as a leader, you’ll be tempted to ignore a person’s track record. You’ve fallen in love with them (as a leader). And you’ve convinced yourself that ‘this time will be different….I know he/she just needs a better environment’. Well, maybe. Kind of sounds like a bad marriage ready to happen, doesn’t it? Wouldn’t you be wiser to look at their past and ask this question? What have they done with what they’ve been given? If they couldn’t make it work before, why would they be able to make it work with your team? Conversely, if they took a small team and made it healthy and grow, maybe you could trust them with a larger team. If they’ve been responsible with a little, maybe it’s reasonable to trust them with more. (This sounds almost biblical doesn’t it?) That’s trajectory: a leader’s past is a preview of their future. Click To Tweet Sure, once in a while you might want to do this. But don’t give that person major responsibility when they’ve been irresponsible in the past. Give them a little bit. And pray for them. And help. And watch. And be honest with how they’re doing. Click To Tweet So by all means be charitable and radically generous. Give…and expect nothing in return. For sure, you should always be helping and ministering to people and learning from people. They just don’t have to be the team you’re counting on to push your mission forward. If you want to advance your mission, recruit people with the skill set you need for the job. Be charitable. But building a great team is not an act of charity. Click To Tweet
Want More?
By the way, these three
questions work personally too. If you’re wondering whether to invest
more time with people, these three questions can clarify a lot.If you want more on developing high capacity teams, this interview with Chris Lema is worth your time. He drops so many gems on how to develop high capacity talent—from scratch. You can listen below or subscribe to my Leadership Podcast for free on iTunes and jump onto Episode 39 with Chris. I also write more about creating a healthy leadership culture and building high capacity volunteer teams in my new book, Lasting Impact. Learn more, and even download a free chapter, here. What do you think? Any other questions you’d add to this list? Scroll down and leave a comment! The post How to Tell Who You Can Truly Trust in Leadership appeared first on Carey Nieuwhof. |
Monday, March 23, 2015
John Wesley and the Supernatural
Love this post from Andrew Williams. He digs into Wesley's call for more experiential faith... the gifts of the spirit. I grew up in the Methodist church and these were not things we ever discussed though we looked to Wesley as the father of our faith.
The whole article is here
In his commentary on 1 Corinthians, Wesley notes and comments on the Apostle Paul’s assertion for people to earnestly desire the gifts of the Spirit:
“In the preceding verses, St. Paul has been speaking of the extraordinary gifts of the Holy Ghost; such as healing the sick; prophesying, in the proper sense of the word, that is, foretelling things to come; speaking with strange tongues, such as the speaker had never learned; and the miraculous interpretation of tongues. And these gifts the Apostle allows to be desirable; yea, he exhorts the Corinthians… to covet them earnestly.”
A few sentences later, Wesley comments on the commonly held view (at that time), that the gifts of the Spirit had ceased:
“From this time they almost totally ceased; very few instances of the kind were found. The cause of this was not, ‘because there was no more occasion for them’…the real cause was, ‘the love of many’, almost of all Christians, so called, was ‘waxed cold’. The Christians had no more of the Spirit of Christ than the other heathens the Son of Man, when he came to examine his Church, could hardly ‘find faith upon earth’. This was the real cause why the extraordinary gifts of the Holy Ghost were no longer to be found in the Christian Church; because Christians were turned Heathens again, and had only a dead form left.”[1]
In other words, Wesley not only rejected cessationism, but saw the gifts of the Spirit as necessary to attest to the Church’s liveliness!
Wednesday, October 1, 2014
Stop Digging Ditches
Eugene Peterson ~ “I had just assumed the energy would keep coming.” It’s a harsh look in the mirror for every pastor who stays on the job longer than 5 years… one day you enter what Peterson calls “The Badlands.” We cannot live from goal to goal forever. At some point we have to stop digging ditches and start to dig a well.
Eugene Peterson on Pastoring
Jonathan Merritt’s recent interview with Eugene Peterson is vintage Peterson. Merritt asked Peterson what advice he might give people who are preparing for ministry. I think Peterson’s response is perfect:
The one thing I think is at the root of a lot of pastors’ restlessness and dissatisfaction is impatience. They think if they get the right system, the right programs, the right place, the right location, the right demographics, it’ll be a snap. And for some people it is: if you’re a good actor, if you have a big smile, if you are an extrovert. In some ways, a religious crowd is the easiest crowd to gather in the world. Our country’s full of examples of that. But for most, pastoring is a very ordinary way to live. And it is difficult in many ways because your time is not your own, for the most part, and the whole culture is against you. This consumer culture, people grow up determining what they want to do by what they can consume. And the Christian gospel is just quite the opposite of that. And people don’t know that. And pastors don’t know that when they start out. We’ve got a whole culture that is programmed to please people, telling them what they want. And if you do that, you might end up with a big church, but you won’t be a pastor.“I’d tell them that pastoring is not a very glamorous job. It’s a very taking-out-the-laundry and changing-the-diapers kind of job. And I think I would try to disabuse them of any romantic ideas of what it is. As a pastor, you’ve got to be willing to take people as they are. And live with them where they are. And not impose your will on them. Because God has different ways of being with people, and you don’t always know what they are.”
Go to the smallest church
I'm reading Eugene Peterson this week... and it is challenging. Here is his advice to young Christians.
“Go to the nearest smallest church and commit yourself to being there for 6 months. If it doesn’t work out, find somewhere else. But don’t look for programs, don’t look for entertainment, and don’t look for a great preacher. A Christian congregation is not a glamorous place, not a romantic place. That’s what I always told people. If people were leaving my congregation to go to another place of work, I’d say, “The smallest church, the closest church, and stay there for 6 months.” Sometimes it doesn’t work. Some pastors are just incompetent. And some are flat out bad. So I don’t think that’s the answer to everything, but it’s a better place to start than going to the one with all the programs, the glitz, all that stuff.”
“Go to the nearest smallest church and commit yourself to being there for 6 months. If it doesn’t work out, find somewhere else. But don’t look for programs, don’t look for entertainment, and don’t look for a great preacher. A Christian congregation is not a glamorous place, not a romantic place. That’s what I always told people. If people were leaving my congregation to go to another place of work, I’d say, “The smallest church, the closest church, and stay there for 6 months.” Sometimes it doesn’t work. Some pastors are just incompetent. And some are flat out bad. So I don’t think that’s the answer to everything, but it’s a better place to start than going to the one with all the programs, the glitz, all that stuff.”
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